Gay Porn: The Survey Continues!

So I started with my first analysis of the results here at Cocky & Rude and then I posted at my own blog about Gay Porn and Social Networking and now today we’ll touch on exposure to the flesh, sometimes with touching. Ahem.

I asked who had seen some dancing boys, either completely nekkid or with the naught bits covered. I was actually kind of surprised how many hadn’t, or how many hadn’t seen them completely in the buff. My first experience with male stripper was when I was 19. It was a friend’s Mom’s 50th birthday party. Yes, awkward. Anyway, this was way back in the day, ‘cause I’m old as dirt, and in Manitoba no less, and they were completely bare. Huh. Who’d have thought we were so progressive out there on the prairies.

What did people have to say about the dancing boys:

Ok while I can appreciate the skin I just can’t get past the boys that can’t shake their booty – so I would rather watch boys that can dance rather than uncoordinated attempts. – Riley (point taken, have some rhythm white boys)

Some drool worthy in my college days. One gent who was apache had me really drooling. And those guys in NOLA. – SamK (Okay, Andrew in NOLA was pitiful but the others were ‘fine’)

Only once in the total buff, and he wasn’t that good-looking, which sort of spoiled the experience. I’ve seen lots of strippers or go-go dancers in g-strings/jock straps… – Janet (Why was Janet looking above his shoulders?)

I’ve seen both. I sort of prefer them to be not entirely naked. I’m way more about the arms and chest than the peen. – Anon (that’s a point – we all know penises are gross)

Okay, so maybe you’d seen one up there gyrating on the bar and having a good time. Maybe you’ve even touched a bare ass or two in passing. What about something more. Really getting down and dirty. Well, not surprisingly the numbers there are much lower. I’m thinking largely because that may be illegal in most places? Not sure. Anyway, most of us are willing to give it a try though and see if it’s worthwhile. The ladies in the circles I run in are nothing if not open minded.

So what was it like for those who’ve experienced it?

Once, in passing, in Thailand, and it made me really sad 😦 – Anon (that doesn’t sound fun)

Maybe, oh hell yeah, let me at it? Have watched the men down on Bourbon Street with a gay co-worker. – SamK (How did I miss this in NOLA?)

At a gay club we hadn’t visited before – it was actually pretty good – needless to say we did go back again! But have also seen some pretty bad ones – Riley (Riley, the voice of experience.)

Only if no women are involved. – Ruby Netherlips (True that. I heard some oddly horrific/yet fascinating stories about Japan from a colleague)

Does the Folsom Street Fair count? 🙂 There were all sorts of lovely men doing lovely things to each other, and I have photos to prove it 😉 – Anon (I can’t believe she didn’t share the pics!)

Only reason I haven’t is I’d rather go in the company of a friend, and the opportunity hasn’t come around yet. But on that fine day…! – Willa Okati (author) (We’ll have to work on that Willa.)

A club isn’t my thing. Certainly wouldn’t mind seeing two guys having sex live, though, but outside of a club, not sure how that would come about, lol. – Anon (I believe cash would exchange hands. Maybe if we all chipped in?)

So there you have it. Monday on my blog I’ll have some final thought on WHY we like the all-boy porn. I was so impressed by everyone who answered by poll and shared their personal stories and reasons for their preferences. Not all anon as you note either.

Thanks to C&R for hosting some of my results and for inspiring the survey. It was great fun.


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20 thoughts on “Gay Porn: The Survey Continues!”

  1. How in THE HELL did I miss this survery?????

    Tam, you need to direct me to these things when they’re going on….the surveys I mean. Course, if you want to direct me to nekkid boys dancing, well I certainly wouldn’t say no! 🙂

    HUGS…

  2. I’m sure you can find some guys who would let you watch for free, but paying may improve the quality of the goods (or at least require less time spent screening).

  3. I don’t get the point of watching strippers. I’ll shake it for you, but you can’t touch. Oh and if you don’t give me money for it, I’m going to leave. Sounds like being married.

  4. When Ty and I went to Puerto Vallarta for New Years, there was this hotel called the Blue Chairs. They had a bar in the rooftop that was great for sunset drinks…..but there were also go-go boys…and they were very pushy. IF you looked that them they would walk over to you and hand you their penis….it was not pleasant

    1. Yeah, that’s not fun. I imagine in places like Mexico they subsist on the tips so are more pushy than they might be somewhere in NA. I never found the guys in NOLA pushy like that. If you asked they’d come by and do their thing, but mostly they just waited to be approached for something more than standing on the bar.

      The bartender in NOLA told us they actually import dancers because so many of the guys locally are hooked on meth or whatever and are only doing it for drug money. Seems like an odd import. Obviously not all, but the guys the first night we were there were from Houston I think.

      1. The strippers in Toronto aren’t pushy (I mean they ARE Canadian after all), but some were kind of insistant. Others, when I told them I wasn’t interested in a private dance, would still just stand there and talk to you. If it was a slow night. If fact, one night, I spent a few hours talking with Dawson. He spent nearly the entire night next to me, except when it was his turn to dance, or some customre came up and asked him for a dance. But it was a slow night. And another time, one of the strippers clued me in to a local comic book store and we spent quite some time debating Marvel vs DC. 🙂

        But yeah, I’m with john. I enjoy it every once in a while, just to see it. But it’s not something I’d want to do on any regular basis.

        HUGS>..

        1. This sounds like being the gay guy in the straight strip club. I’ll never forget her, her name was Anastasia or some fake shit like that. We spent 4 … 4 hours shooting the shit, I learned about her life, her kid, her deadbeat of a boyfriend. It was interesting to learn the ins and outs of things though, like she pointed out who is a sucker and would pay for a dance, stories about the other strippers, etc. I mean it was fun but fuck lady, I’m not hear to listen to your life story, so either pick this 5 dollar bill off my nose with your sad old man parts or go pester some other idiot.

  5. We hired a male stripper for my mom’s surprise birthday party one year. He only stripped down to a speedo type thing, but she was mortified – her face was as red as a tomato. It was awesome.

    1. LOL You are mean. My friend’s Mom was totally on board with the whole thing. I’m just not sure it’s something I want to share with my off-spring.

        1. Hey, I don’t send her THOSE pictures, it just freaks me out when we have the same ones on our Tumblr feeds, luckily hers seem to still be clothed.

  6. I can’t help but start feeling like a protective mommy when the strippers are too young and being groped at… And that while I don’t even have kids. 😉

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